Pastor coaching
For female pastors carrying invisible loads—this is for you.
Ministry can be beautiful. It can also be draining, isolating, and complex. I offer confidential, faith-filled coaching to help you navigate your role as a female pastor—without burning out. Together we’ll explore sustainable rhythms, emotional resilience, physical vitality, and how to lead from a place of overflow, not depletion.
These are the top 10 felt needs of female pastors in our generation. I help women navigate these and more:
1. Authentic Friendship
Many pastors’ wives feel isolated. We long for safe, genuine friendships where we’re not seen just as “the pastor’s wife” but as a real person, free from judgment or unrealistic expectations.
2. Emotional Support
The emotional weight of ministry—supporting a spouse under pressure, dealing with church conflict, and managing family life—can be overwhelming. Pastors’ wives often need consistent emotional care and encouragement, but don’t know where to turn.
3. Spiritual Replenishment
Because we are always “pouring out,” we often go spiritually dry. We deeply desire personal time with God, worship that isn’t performance-driven, and spiritual input that speaks to our soul.
4. Identity Beyond the Role
Many of us struggle with who they are outside of being “the pastor’s wife.” We want to rediscover our God-given identity, gifts, and calling apart from our spouse’s ministry.
5. Permission to Be Vulnerable
There’s often pressure to appear strong and spiritually put-together. But we crave spaces where we can be honest about our struggles, doubts, or exhaustion without it affecting our husband’s position.
6. Healthy Boundaries
From expectations to always be available, to constant interruptions of family life, many of us feel overextended. We need help establishing and maintaining healthy personal and family boundaries in a ministry context.
7. Marriage Support
Ministry can place incredible strain on a marriage. We desire intentional investment in our relationship, time with our spouse not focused on ministry tasks, and sometimes counseling.
8. Practical Help with Burnout or Stress
Many of us silently suffer from chronic stress, fatigue, or even physical symptoms from burnout. We need practical strategies for rest, resilience, and holistic health—emotionally, physically, and mentally.
9. Support in Parenting Under a Microscope
Raising kids in a “fishbowl” can be incredibly stressful. We want encouragement and wisdom for parenting without pressure to be perfect, and for our children to grow up in grace, not scrutiny.
10. Validation and Appreciation
Many pastors’ wives feel unseen or unacknowledged. We long to know that their quiet sacrifices matter and want to feel valued and appreciated—not just tolerated—for our role in the ministry.
$250 per session
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